Why am I passionate about this?

I’ve been fascinated by altered states of consciousness and social change since childhood. Growing up in an esoteric home, I was immersed in a spiritual worldview, but this didn’t provide guidance on how to deal with grief or address social challenges. I sense that noticing and tending to the various forms of collective grief we are immersed in is a crucial place to begin. As a writer, artist, and somatic practitioner, I aim to create care networks to support liveable futures and world(s) where as many beings as possible can live with safety, dignity, and belonging. 


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Tending Grief: Embodied Rituals for Holding Our Sorrow and Growing Cultures of Care in Community

By Camille Sapara Barton,

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What is my book about?

My book explores the various forms of collective grief we experience and the benefits of being with grief in a…

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The books I picked & why

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Camille Sapara Barton Why did I love this book?

I love this book because it helped me to understand how death-phobic the Western world is and why grief, death, and mourning are currently taboo topics for many. I read the book shortly after the death of a family member, and it helped me to make sense of my feelings and give myself permission to be with them.

I found the book very hard to put down. With poetic wisdom, Stephen Jenkinson outlines how little space there is to consider what a good death is, especially in the context of Western medicine. One of the biggest messages I gained from this book is that we must embrace grief and death in order to embody our ethics and, ultimately, live and die well. 

By Stephen Jenkinson,

Why should I read it?

3 authors picked Die Wise as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Die Wise does not offer seven steps for coping with death. It does not suggest ways to make dying easier. It pours no honey to make the medicine go down. Instead, with lyrical prose, deep wisdom, and stories from his two decades of working with dying people and their families, Stephen Jenkinson places death at the center of the page and asks us to behold it in all its painful beauty. Die Wise teaches the skills of dying, skills that have to be learned in the course of living deeply and well. Die Wise is for those who will fail…


Book cover of Inflamed: Deep Medicine and the Anatomy of Injustice

Camille Sapara Barton Why did I love this book?

I love this book because it highlights how interconnected we are with the land and the web of life. As a long-term student of politics, ecology, and health disparities related to colonization, this book is one of the best contributions I have read on the intersections of these topics.

I felt grief and validation while reading this book because it speaks to much of the collective grief I have witnessed. I also found this book deeply inspiring. I am so grateful to have tangible examples of how entangled my health is with the well-being of the land and more than human kin.

I feel this book has provided me with a map or compass as to how to mend relationships with the land and grow more beautiful futures. 

By Rupa Marya, Raj Patel,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Inflamed as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

'A work of exhilarating scope and relevance ... What a rare and powerful experience to feel a book in your very body' Naomi Klein

'Health is not something we can attain as individuals, for ourselves, hermetically sealed off from the world around us. An injury to one is an injury to all.'

Our bodies, societies and planet are inflamed. In this boldly original book, renowned political economist Raj Patel teams up with physician Rupa Marya to illuminate the hidden relationships between human health and the profound injustices of our political and economic systems. In doing so, they offer a radical…


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The Nightmarchers By J. Lincoln Fenn,

In 1939, on a remote Pacific island, botanical researcher Irene Greer plunged off a waterfall to her death, leaving behind a legacy shrouded in secrets. Her great-niece Julia, a struggling journalist recovering from a divorce, seeks answers decades later.

Tasked with retrieving Dr. Greer’s discovery–a flower that could have world-changing…

Book cover of The Wild Edge of Sorrow: Rituals of Renewal and the Sacred Work of Grief

Camille Sapara Barton Why did I love this book?

I love this book because it has so many wonderful rituals to support grief tending. As Francis Weller trained with Malidoma and Sobonfu Somé, who I am deeply influenced by, reading this book feels like another transmission from these elders.

The language is poetic and soothing. This book was a dear companion to me on my journey with grief. 

By Francis Weller,

Why should I read it?

3 authors picked The Wild Edge of Sorrow as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

"It blew me away. I underlined things on nearly every page." —Anderson Cooper, All There Is

The Wild Edge of Sorrow offers hope and healing for a profoundly fractured world—and a pathway home to the brightness, pains, and gifts of being alive.

Introducing the 5 gates of grief, psychotherapist Francis Weller explores how we move through the waters of grief and loss in a culture so fundamentally detached from the needs of the soul.

• The first gate recognizes—and invites us to accept—the painful truth that everything we love, we will lose. With this acceptance comes beauty and responsibility—and an…


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Camille Sapara Barton Why did I love this book?

I adore this book as it feels deeply woven with the legacy of Octavia Butler: gripping, socially engaged science fiction that is full of brilliant information about how to survive societal collapse.

I appreciate how adrienne shines a light on grief as it relates to the various social conditions that create hardship for folks. This systemic lack of care makes it hard for many folks to have their needs met in life, let alone have a dignified death. I gobbled this book up and was very sad to have finished it.  

By adrienne maree brown,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Grievers as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

★ "It’s a strong precedent that will leave readers eager for more."
—Publishers Weekly (starred review)

Grievers is the story of a city so plagued by grief that it can no longer function.

Dune’s mother is patient zero of a mysterious illness that stops people in their tracks—in mid-sentence, mid-action, mid-life—casting them into a nonresponsive state from which no one recovers. Dune must navigate poverty and the loss of her mother as Detroit’s hospitals, morgues, and graveyards begin to overflow. As the quarantined city slowly empties of life, she investigates what caused the plague, and what might end it, following…


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Lap Baby By Amy Q. Barker,

A story you'll never forget about survival, forgiveness, healing, and love.

Twenty years ago. A plane crash. Three women survivors are inexorably connected by fate, destiny, and a cause. 

Julie Geiger, a flight attendant, told five sets of parents to place their babies on the floor of the plane when…

Book cover of Rebellious Mourning: The Collective Work of Grief

Camille Sapara Barton Why did I love this book?

As a social change nerd, this book hit the spot for me. It was a powerful read, giving me a glimpse into the lives of so many inspiring activists and organizers who have been incorporating grief work into their lives and movement spaces.

I felt a lot of inspiration reading this, and it helped me feel less alone. 

By Cindy Milstein (editor),

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Rebellious Mourning as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

"This intimate, moving, and timely collection of essays points the way to a world in which the burden of grief is shared, and pain is reconfigured into a powerful force for social change and collective healing." —Astra Taylor, author The People's Platform

"A primary message here is that from tears comes the resolve for the struggle ahead." —Ron Jacobs, author of Daydream Sunset

"Rebellious Mourning uncovers the destruction of life that capitalist development leaves in its trail. But it is also witness to the power of grief as a catalyst to collective resistance." —Silvia Federici, author of Caliban and the…


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Tending Grief: Embodied Rituals for Holding Our Sorrow and Growing Cultures of Care in Community

By Camille Sapara Barton,

Book cover of Tending Grief: Embodied Rituals for Holding Our Sorrow and Growing Cultures of Care in Community

What is my book about?

My book explores the various forms of collective grief we experience and the benefits of being with grief in a community to reduce isolation, build trust, and get clear on what we care about so we can move towards this together.

The book highlights some of the unique constellations of loss experienced by BIPOC and queer people. However, the embodied grief practices outlined in my book can be supportive for anyone seeking support to navigate loss.

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